My Orthodox Family
Introduction (Ages 7-9)
" For whoever does the will of My Father in heaven is My brother, and sister and mother. " - Matthew 12:50
My Orthodox Family , a parish-wide, self-study program, is designed to help us discover and develop ways we can continue to become living examples of Christ in our lives, while we help to build up society (i.e. “the world”). We are responsible for our behavior in all the communities and “families” in which we live: home, church, school, neighborhood, government, the environment, etc. Our coming together as a community in Christ is the essence of our faith. “The word church, as we remember, means a gathering or assembly of people specifically chosen and called apart to perform a particular task.” (Hopko, The Orthodox Faith II, Worship). No matter what our background, this is what binds us as Christians, and family members of His Holy Church.
The journey begins when Christians leave their homes and beds. They leave, indeed, their life in this present and concrete world, and whether they have to drive fifteen miles, or walk a few blocks, a sacramental act is already taking place, an act which is the very condition of everything else that is to happen. For they are now on their way to constitute the Church, or to be more exact, to be transformed into the Church of God. - Schmemann, For the Life of the World
As Orthodox Christians in America, we are a diverse mixture of peoples from throughout the world. Looking back on four or five generations, many of us can trace our families to immigrants from Greece, the Middle East, Russia, Central and Eastern Europe, Siberia and the Far East. Traveling long distances, our ancestors established new families and communities on the North American continent. They discovered here the same Orthodox faith that Native Alaskans had adopted in 1794 from Russian Missionaries to America. In a little over 200 years, Orthodox parishes have populated North America with more than 4-5 million people!
Our parish communities today include many new people who have found their home in the Orthodox Church. They or their ancestors have come from a multitude of nations—Irish, Italian, English, Scandinavian and German cultures from Western and Northern Europe, as well as a mixture of traditional cultures from Africa, Asia, Mexico, and South America. We not only live in multicultural societies, but in multicultural parishes in Canada, the United States, and Mexico. As Orthodox Christians in America, spending time finding out who we are and where we want to go as an Orthodox community will help us see ourselves as a part of our local, regional, national, and world communities. Along with those roles comes responsibility. Every person within the parish community has a role to play; from the newly baptized, to the oldest. How we see ourselves and our role as a Family of God is critical to the survival of the parish, as well as the entire Church in this world.
As God’s children we are called to witness our faith. We are called to understand who we are as Orthodox Christians, and to bear witness to God with our families and friends by being good neighbors, reaching out to help others, and standing up and protecting those who are being mistreated, or are victims of discrimination or prejudice. We are also called to know and live our faith; to correct misconceptions and wrong information about our beliefs, as well as to respect people of other faiths.
Overall Objectives of the Unit
Throughout the duration of this FOCUS Unit, teachers will find it helpful to keep two main overarching objectives in mind:
- Identify ourselves as Orthodox people, bound together as a family in Christian Love.
- Understand that, as faithful Orthodox Christians, we must commit ourselves to His Commandment to love one another through acts of compassion and charity to all of God’s people.
Objectives are things which the students should be able to do as a result of the session. Keeping the two main obj,ectives in mind can help us, as teachers, focus on the important fact that our parishes were established for the purposes of worship, community, mission, and good works for each other, and for those in the world around us.
God made us His People through the sacraments of the Church. We became God’s Children in Baptism. He anointed us with the Holy Oil of Chrism and called us to be His People; to hear, understand, and proclaim His Word as God’s prophets; to protect and care for the world as His anointed Kings—clothed in the white garment of Holiness; and to offer up to Him everything we are and do as a holy gift and service, as gifts offered by priests. God calls us to restore the world as the Paradise He created for His people in the Garden. He calls us to everlasting life in His Kingdom. It is through life in the Church that we become His holy people who are called to do His work in this world!
How the Unit is Arranged
The unit is comprised of six sessions of about 45 minutes each. The first five deal with identity, self-study, and involvement within our parish; while the last focuses on our involvement within our communities. The suggested prayers are just that. Singing the Troparion of the parish is certainly appropriate as an opening prayer, with the closing being whatever hymn or prayer is your parish tradition for gatherings. Students at the youngest level should probably keep the same prayers throughout the sessions for consistency.
The lessons have been developed based on five age levels: ages 4-6, ages 7-9, ages 10-12, ages 13-17, and 18-older. Every age level has its own individual lesson plan. All the lesson plans contain the following parts:
- FOCUS Unit Title, Lesson Title & Age Level
- Lesson Objectives
The lesson objectives are the things measurable by the teacher. Through questions, discussion and activity participation teachers can measure whether students were able to fulfill these objectives. If they cannot, teachers will know that review or repetition may be necessary.
- Materials
Materials are the various items required to teach the lesson. These include items such as craft materials and classroom Bibles. - Resources
Resources are items the DCE has provided for use while teaching the lesson. These include printable icons, line drawings, handouts, liturgical texts, Bible stories, planning worksheets and many other kinds of professionally developed teacher resources to aide in teaching the lesson. The resources have been categorized into two groups: Required Resources and Supplemental Resources. Required resources are specifically referred to within the lesson plan. Supplemental resources are generally useful in gathering background information. Often, the supplemental resources will be links to external web sites and suggested books for the teacher to read. - Lesson Procedure
This is a step-by step outline of how the session should go. Please be aware that some lessons require advance preparation--read lessons, prepare for them, and think prayerfully about them well before you meet students in the classroom.
Every Family Has a Story (Ages 7-9)

Overview
Family Is Love
- Every family’s story is different and each generation tells a different story about its ways of life, its joys, and its hardships.


Objectives
By the end of this Lesson, learners should be able to:- Hear stories about families and their lives together
- Compare stories with their own family lives
- Identify family members from pictures
- Draw/paste pictures of family members on a page as the beginning step to a unit scrapbook
- Begin to paste copied pictures of themselves, family members, and Godparents on a parish family tree
- Recall and orally share family/ancestor/Godparent story with class
- Write and add brief anecdotes about family/Godparents for scrapbook
- Be able to describe how they fit in as part of their family tree
- Give examples of how their family loves them
- Connect God's love with the people who love us


Materials
- 2-3 pieces of construction paper per student with holes punched with 3-hole punch
- 1 piece of white lined paper (8½" x 11") per student with holes punched with 3- hole punch
- Large (12”x18”) sheets of green construction paper (2-3 sheets per child)
- Red construction paper
- Large (12”x18”) sheets of brown construction paper to make into a tree trunk
- rounded scissors (if necessary to fit photos)
- Plastic round tops from smaller containers, plastic glasses, or any item that can be used to trace circles (1½" -2” in diameter, graduated sizes)
- Sheets of 1"-1½ “ wide self-sticking labels
- Glue stick
- Crayons, pencils, washable markers
- Paper hole punch
- Yarn cut into 6 inch strips, three per student
- Icon for prayer
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Resources Sent in earlier by parents/family--see Family Letter in Resource Section
- Copies of pictures of family members, Godparents, and photos of special occasions, holidays, vacations, baptism
- Written ancestor story, family story, special occasion/holiday


Resources
Required Resources
- Saints, Literature and Children's Stories (PDF)
- Saints, Literature and Children's Stories (PDF)
- My Orthodox Family - Family Letter (HTML)
- A Picnic in October (Image)
- Christina Goes to Church (Book)
- Love You Forever (Image)
- Rechenka’s Eggs (Image)
- Something to Remember Me By (Image)
- Something to Remember Me By (Image)


Procedure
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Opening Prayer |
In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. |
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Discussion Starter-Bridge |
Begin by asking the following: Who lives with you in your house? Allow time for each student to answer. What do you love the most about your family? Answers should reflect student’s awareness of ways their families express their love. As students answer, interject statements making comparison of family love with God’s love for us. Can anyone tell me how God shows us He loves us? Answers should reflect God’s love. |
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Story |
Share one of the suggested stories listed, or one of your choice. You may also read portions of one or two stories to build upon background discussion. Ask students if they can recall the persons in the families described in the story.
Note: You may skip this step, if your time is limited. |
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Family Memories Scrapbook |
This is an ongoing activity designed to carry through the entire unit of study and be part of the “Roots” Coffee Hour project. The project would be mounted on a large wall area. Note: While working on this activity, you may choose to begin work on the Extra Activity, Life-Sized Figures , at the end of this session. Assistance will be required to work on both projects simultaneously. Younger students may need assistance.
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Family Tree |
This is an ongoing activity designed to carry through the entire unit of study and be part of the “Roots” Coffee Hour project. The project would be mounted on a large wall area. This activity can also be going on simultaneously with the scrapbook activity, with half of the students working on the scrapbook, and half on the parish family tree. Younger students may need assistance. See Teacher Resources: “Roots” Coffee Hour (Parish Event) and Family Tree
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Wrap up |
As students are cleaning up and preparing for closing prayer, ask the following:
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Closing Prayer |
O Lord, save Thy people, and bless Thine inheritance. Grant victories to the Orthodox Christians over their adversaries; And by the virtue of Thy cross, preserve Thy habitation. In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. |
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Extra Activity - Life-Sized Figures |
Note: With younger children, you will need assistance to keep them busy while figures are measured, cut, and outlined. At least one other person will be needed to assist in these tasks while another is working on another activity (see above)
Life –Sized Figures These life-sized, self-portrait figures can be hung in the classroom throughout the year, in the parish center as a display, or with the church-wide projects of Our Orthodox Family. Materials:
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Life Together as a Family (Ages 7-9)

Overview
Family Means Belonging
- Families share everything; love, joy, good times and bad. They help and support one another, both physically and spiritually. These times together become a source of many memories as we grow together in love, sharing joys and sorrows. Family members need to work together on rules, daily tasks, good habits, and relationships to make them work together as a family unit. The Church blesses families and helps them to live and grow as God’s children and members of God’s family.
Note: Although sessions in this unit were written using general terms for family, teachers should be sensitive to family situations which are unique or dysfunctional, and adjust your approach to this session accordingly.
Note: The week before doing this lesson, be sure students have brought in one to three small personal items, or pictures of items, to place in a personal memory box.


Objectives
By the end of this Lesson, learners should be able to:- Identify families as cooperative, supportive, sharing
- Write a descriptive paragraph or short story, using their senses where possible, about their family, and how they participate in the life of their family, to be part of their family scrapbook
- List what they do at home to help other members of their families
- Describe/explore, elaborate on what it means to belong to a family
- List some rules, good habits, daily tasks, and favorite things in the everyday life of their families
- Connect belonging to a family with belonging to different groups (parish, church school, activities, sports, school)
- Explain the personal items or pictures of them, and why they are important to them
- Place their lists in a memory box to be shared with their classmates and families
- Begin planning their projects as part of a parish-wide “Roots Coffee Hour


Materials
- Sheet colored construction paper (9x12”) with holes punched
- Sheets of white-lined paper
- Small gift boxes, shoe boxes, or 9”x12”x2” gift box box to hold small personal items for Memory Box
- 9 ½”x13” pieces of construction paper
- 24”x16” pieces of fabric, construction paper, or wallpaper
- 12”x2” strips of white construction paper
- Copies of title, “My Memories Box” on sturdy paper, or sturdy paper for children to write title
- Newspapers to cover tables
- Sequins, trim
- Copies of photos showing family members doing things together
- Scissors, paste/glue, markers/ crayons
- Board, dryboard, butcher paper
- Chalk, dry markers, markers, pencils


Resources
Required Resources
- Family Tree (PDF)
- Memory Box (PDF)
- My Story (Writing Outline #1) (PDF)
- "Roots" Coffee Hour Parish Event (PDF)


Procedure
1 |
Opening Prayer |
In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. O Heavenly King, the Comforter, the Spirit of Truth |
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Discussion Starter-Bridge |
Begin by reviewing last week’s session. Activate prior knowledge by having them look at their Family Tree display and Family Memories Album. Ask students, Who can tell me what they love about their family? (Allow time for students to share.) Ask students, What did we learn about God’s love for us? (Allow time for students to think before answering. May need to prompt with key words-love, creating families, recall the story read last week) Building upon prior knowledge, ask students, Where else do we feel loved and like we belong? How about school? Church? Church School? (Allow students to elaborate)
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Story |
Share one of the stories listed, or one of your choice. You may also read portions of one or two stories to build upon background discussion. Ask students if they can recall the persons in the families described in the story. Note: You may skip this step, if your time is limited.
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Short Story |
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Memory Box |
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Wrap-up |
Roots Coffee Hour After completing their projects, have students share with the class the most important things in their stories and memory boxes that tell about their family. Ask: How can we show we belong to our family? (Answers should reflect understanding of cooperation.) Ask, What does it mean to belong to our church? Our church school? Our soccer team? (Again, a connection should be made about the need for sharing and cooperation in belonging.) Note: Time may be needed to continue work on the Family Tree project. Use your discretion in choosing the above activities to meet with your class timetable. Family Tree
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Closing Prayer |
O Lord, save Thy people and bless Thine inheritance. Grant victories to the Orthodox Christians over their adversaries; And by virtue of Thy Cross, preserve Thy habitation. In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. |

God’s Story and God’s People (Ages 7-9)

Overview
God’s faithful family became God’s people.
- When God created people, He created family. Some of God’s people were faithful; others turned away from God. God sent His Own Son, Jesus Christ, to bring His people back to Him. Jesus taught us to repent, turn away from evil, and change our lives. Jesus also shows us how to care, to love, and to help one another.


Objectives
By the end of this Lesson, learners should be able to:- Identify families from the Bible
- Recall a specific fact or incident that happened in a Bible story
- Share stories of faithfulness and love in families
- Discuss the meaning of turning away from God and why this is hurtful to us as people of God
- Compare families from the Bible with their own families
- Illustrate a story about Biblical families
- Design a mural of family Bible stories to be ongoing throughout unit


Materials
- Plain white drawing/construction paper (9 x 12”), one per student, with holes punched
- Crayons, washable markers
- Large foam board for Bible family stories
- Glue
- Colored construction paper
- Plain white drawing paper without holes


Resources
Required Resources
- A Shepherd Boy Becomes a King (PDF)
- Adam and Eve disobey God (PDF)
- God blesses Hannah with a son (PDF)
- God calls Moses to help His people (PDF)
- God makes a promise to Abraham (PDF)
- How Noah Obeyed God (PDF)
- Samuel Hears God's Call (PDF)
- Three Special Visitors (PDF)


Procedure
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Opening Prayer |
In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. |
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Discussion Starter-Bridge |
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Bible Stories |
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Family Memories Scrapbook and Class Mural |
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Wrap up |
Ask students to recall who their favorite Bible person was and why. Ask if they thought the families in the Bible stories were part of God’s faithful people. Have student apply what they have learned by asking, How are our families like the ones we talked about from the Bible? (Allow students to elaborate) |
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Optional-Take Home |
God Loves Us, Take Home Numbers 10,16 [OCEC, 1.800.464.2744] |
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Closing Prayer |
O Lord, save Thy people and bless Thine inheritance. Grant victories to the Orthodox Christians over their adversaries; And by the virtue of Thy Cross, preserve Thy habitation. In the Name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. |

Members of God’s Family (Ages 7-9)

Overview
We become members of God’s family when we are baptized
- We are made clean in the waters of baptism. The white robe is a sign of new life. We are sealed with the gift of God’s Holy Spirit and become “living temples” of God, as members of His family. Just as our families have stories, our church family also has its own story of how it began, where people came from, and how it grew. Keeping a record of our own family as well as that of our parish family keeps us together as a community.


Objectives
By the end of this Lesson, learners should be able to:- Identify major actions in the sacraments of Baptism and Chrismation
- Make a mural showing the parts of the services of Baptism and Chrismation, labeling each part
- Use photos of their own baptisms to further illustrate their knowledge of these sacraments, as well as personal commitment to Christ as members of His family
- Relate names and photos of the leaders and groups in their local church family to “roots” of a Family Tree that provide strength and support to the church school and parish as a true community in Christ
- Use photos and materials to add to Family Tree consisting of their immediate families, parish and church school family, and Baptism as part of the parish family
- Relate those in their immediate families with their church family through the roots and branches of the Family Tree
- Continue work on projects from Sessions 1-3 for Roots Coffee Hour
Note: Although the sessions in this unit were written using general terms for family, teachers should be sensitive to family situations which are unique or dysfunctional, and adjust your approach to this session accordingly.
Note: Prior to this lesson, be sure to have copies of parish pictures, whether from archives or have them taken at previous coffee hour. Be sure to include group pictures and pictures of priest, deacon, choir, church school teachers and students, as well as council members and individuals. You may wish to confer with the students and teacher(s) in the Intermediate and Senior levels, who may be working on their parish interviews, to help you.


Materials
- Large (12’’ x 18”) sheets of green construction paper, pre-cut into large, wide, bushy shapes 1-2 per student to add to the tree top
- Several large (12’ x 18”) sheets of brown construction paper for tree trunk and roots
- Strips of brown and black crepe paper
- Copies of family baptism pictures (several per child)
- Plastic round tops from small containers, plastic glasses, or any item which can be used to trace circles (1 ½ - 2” in diameter, graduated size
- Large white poster paper
- Pencils
- Markers
- Scissors
- Paste, glue, or glue sticks
- Sheet of small 1-1 ½” wide white stickers
- Copies of parish photos, parishioners, old and new
- I am a CHRISTian! Worksheets (optional)


Resources
Required Resources


Procedure
1 |
Opening Prayer |
In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. O Heavenly King, the Comforter, the Spirit of Truth |
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Discussion Starter-Bridge |
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Teaching Pics, Parish Photos, Lesson on Baptism |
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Family Tree |
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Wrap-up |
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Closing Prayer |
O Lord, save Thy people and bless Thine inheritance. Grant victories to the Orthodox Christians over their adversaries; And by virtue of Thy Cross, preserve Thy habitation. In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen |

Being an Orthodox Christian in a Parish Family (Ages 7-9)

Overview
Every Parish Has a Story
- God calls us to love all people. Being Christian and being Orthodox should tell us who we are as right believers who celebrate our faith, and respond to those in our parish family, our community, and to those around us. Just as our own families have many stories, our Church family has stories about how it began and grew. Keeping a record of memories of a parish helps us to understand the history of our parish family, and also how to plan for the future.
Note: Although the sessions in this unit were written using general terms for family, teachers should be sensitive to family situations which are unique or dysfunctional, and adjust your approach to this session accordingly.
Note: Ahead of time, gather the names and pictures (when possible) of: pastor, deacon, choir director and members, church school leaders and members, parish leaders, parishioners, members of the parish who are ill, in nursing homes, etc. Gather names of those who are in need of clothing, food, etc., as well as names of local charities and agencies, such as local soup kitchens, etc.


Objectives
By the end of this Lesson, learners should be able to:- Learn the name of their parish, and the feast or saint for whom it was named
- Draw and explain what parish members do together in church (pray, sing, light candles, listen to the Gospel, receive Holy Communion, take part in processions, etc.)
- Describe favorite family holidays and/or celebrations
- Explain the connection between home celebrations and church feasts
- Compare family and church celebrations with those of their friends and neighbors
- reate a Caring Tree using pictures of the pastor, parish leaders, parishioners and special parish occasions to be continued in the next session
- Add pictures of pastor, parish leaders, parishioners, special parish occasions to the Parish Family Tree
- Finish projects for Roots Coffee Hour (see Sessions 1-4)


Materials
- Cardboard, butcher paper or foam poster board for backing
- Several large pieces of brown and green colored construction paper
- Drawing paper (8 ½” x 11”)
- Crayons, washable markers, pencils
- Scissors
- Copies of parish pictures


Resources
Required Resources
- The Tree of Life "Caring Tree" (PDF)
- Christina's Favorite Saints (Image)
- God, My Friends and Me (Image)
- Little Falcons (Book)
- Teaching Pics (Book)


Procedure
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Opening Prayer |
In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. O Heavenly King, the Comforter, the Spirit of Truth |
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Discussion Starter-Bridge |
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Lesson |
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Caring Tree |
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Wrap-up |
Ask: What do we like best about being in church? Why? What things can we do to help make our parish even better? (Answers should reflect what they’ve learned about belonging to a family; clean up after ourselves, be kind to others, help other people who need assistance, cooperate, share, etc.) Say: Next week we will finish our Caring Tree by adding some of the things we can do to make our parish better.
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Closing Prayer |
O Lord, save Thy people and bless Thine inheritance. |

The Work of God’s People (Ages 7-9)

Overview
We are accountable to God for our lives and the lives of those around us
- As Orthodox Christians, we reveal our commitment to God through our steadfastness, integrity, compassion, and responsibility for all of God’s people. Building community in our local neighborhoods, and in the neighborhood where our church is located, is an important form of witness, mission and outreach, and is the result of our love for each other as family and children of God.
Note: Although the sessions in this unit were written using general terms for family, teachers should be sensitive to family situations which are unique or dysfunctional, and adjust your approach to this session accordingly.
Note: Ahead of time, gather the names and pictures (when possible) of: members of the parish who are ill, in nursing homes, etc. Gather names of those who are in need of clothing, food, etc., as well as names of local charities and agencies, such as local soup kitchens, etc.


Objectives
By the end of this Lesson, learners should be able to:- Identify the love of family, parish family and those around us as a part of God’s plan
- Respond to God’s call as caring, Orthodox Christians
- Name and practice ways to show kindness and be helpful to family, neighborhood, parish and school
- Choose to do something nice for a family member, classmate, neighbor, parishioner
- Choose to assist a person in need by reparing gifts, bringing flowers, sharing a favorite dessert, or take a nice card or homemade item to a neighbor who lives alone
- Finish projects for Roots Coffee Hour


Materials
- Large roll of brown butcher paper or bulletin board paper (teacher supply/art supply)
- Colored construction paper pre-cut into 5”-6” tall by 3”-4” wide leaves (green, orange, yellow, red, brown). If students are able, make several patterns from cardboard for them to trace and cut out themselves
- Rounded/blunt scissors
- Black crayons, washable markers
- Scotch Tape


Procedure
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Opening Prayer |
In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. O Heavenly King, the Comforter, the Spirit of Truth |
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Discussion Starter |
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Story |
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Caring Tree |
Note: This was begun in previous session. You may simply add to this.
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Wrap-up |
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Optional-Take Home |
God Loves Us, Take Home #21 [OCEC, 1.800.464.274]
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Closing Prayer |
O Lord, save Thy people and bless Thine inheritance. In the Name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. |
